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Daddy, Come and Get Me: A Dad’s Adventure Through a Guatemalan Adoption. Gil Michelini. 2011. 348p. Emiliani Publishing.
Daddy, Come and Get Me is a spiritual memoir of Gil Michelini’s journey of bringing his daughter home. Moving alongside the story, Gil reveals a plausible story, based on the official Guatemalan adoption documents, of how a birth mother made the decision for adoption. Gil couldn’t find Guatemala on a map when committing to the adoption of his daughter. He didn’t know anything about starting an international adoption. He didn’t know anyone who had adopted internationally. He did have a goal of adopting a child from outside the United States. It wasn’t inspired by a mission trip or another experience; it was something he wanted to accomplish. His wife didn’t share in the goal nor did many of his friends; however, God turned his goal into a calling—through a nocturnal dream—when his daughter yelled from a mountaintop, “Daddy, come and get me.” This is the first American dad’s memoir of following his call to adopt a daughter from Guatemala.

Daddy’s Little Princess. Cathy Glass. 2014. 304p. Harper Element (UK).
From the Inside Front Cover: Little Beth, aged 7, had been brought up by her father Derek after her mother left when she was a toddler. Beth was a sweet-natured child who appeared to have been well looked after. But it wasn’t long before I started to have concerns that the relationship between Beth and her father wasn’t as it should be.

They clearly loved each other very much and Derek spoiled his daughter, treating her like a princess, but there was something bothering me, something I couldn’t quite put my finger on.

Meanwhile my husband was working away a lot and coming home less at weekends. Then, suddenly, everything changed. Events took a dramatic turn for both Beth and my children; as I strived to pick up the pieces all our lives were changed forever.


About the Author: Bestselling author Cathy Glass, who writes under a pseudonym, has been a foster carer for more than twenty-five years. She has three children.


By the Same Author: Damaged: The Heartbreaking True Story of a Forgotten Child (2006); Hidden: Betrayed, Exploited and Forgotten: How One Boy Overcame the Odds (2007); Cut: The True Story of an Abandoned, Abused Little Girl Who Was Desperate to be Part of a Family (2008); I Miss Mummy: The True Story of a Frightened Young Girl Who is Desperate to Go Home (2009); Saddest Girl in the World: The True Story of a Neglected and Isolated Little Girl Who Just Wanted to Be Loved (2009); The Night the Angels Came (2011); A Baby’s Cry (2012); Another Forgotten Child (2012); Please Don’t Take My Baby (2013); Will You Love Me?: The Story of My Adopted Daughter Lucy (2013); and Saving Danny (2015), among many others.


Dadprovement: A Journey from Careerist to Adoptive Father to a Real Husband and Dad. Patrick R Riccards. 2014. 142p. (Reissued by Turning Stone Press) CreateSpace.
Sometimes staggering events happen in life and we’re thrown completely off balance. Chaos ensues both internally and externally. It was one such event that was pivotal for Patrick Riccards and set him on a journey of discovery toward what was truly important to him. When Riccards suddenly (and inexplicably) loses his job, he is devastated, but it forces him to take stock of his life—to re-examine his relationships, his perceptions of himself, his fears, his values, and dreams for the future. Dadprovement is his raw and honest account of recognizing that he wasn’t the great father or husband he thought he was, that he had simply been going through the motions. Starting with the adoption of two children from Guatemala, Riccards writes of the vast obstacles faced in the international adoption process, the challenges of building a family, and the roller-coaster ride that follows as one tries to balance career and home life. Part adoption story, part career memoir, and a complete telling of one man’s path to personal and professional redemption, Dadprovement details some of the difficult truths to inspire and help other parents wrestling with how to live up to society’s expectations when it comes to career and family. By getting to the root of what is truly important, Riccards recognizes what a “terrific support staff” he has in his family and that anything is possible with them by his side.

Dale’s Tale. Helen Jayne. 2010. 124p. British Association for Adoption & Fostering (UK).
From the Back Cover: One envelope caught my attention as it was franked with the local authority’s name and logo. Feeling excited, I tore the envelope open and scanned the contents. Then, with a sinking heart, I reread the letter in an attempt to take it in. In a nutshell, I was being told that David and I were not going to be considered as adoptive parents because we were foster carers and as such, we were being turned down as potential adopters for Dale. I could not believe it. I felt completely devastated.

This is the story of Helen, a foster carer, and her family, and what happened when Dale joined their family as a foster child. But what was planned as a short-term foster placement soon became longer than expected, and inevitably the family grew attached to Dale, and he to them.

When Helen voiced her wish to adopt Dale, she met with some opposition. As far as the local authority was concerned, there was an adoption plan in place for Dale, but not with Helen. But Helen was determined to persevere in what she believed was in Dale’s best interests.


About the Author: Helen Jayne has lived in an old mining community in Wales since 1998, but was born in another area famous for its coal—the Rhondda Valley. She has an honours degree in English and is director of a company that she runs together with her husband, David, whom she married in 2002. They had their younger daughter and began fostering that same year, and have shared their home with a variety of children, from babies to teenagers. In June 2006, Jayne and David adopted Dale, the little boy they had been fostering for two years. Now, both younger children are attending school and her eldest daughter has recently graduated with an English degree. Like her mother, she has a passion for writing and plans to take up a journalism course later this year.

Dale’s Tale is her first book.


Damaged: The Heartbreaking True Story of a Forgotten Child. Cathy Glass. 2006. 309p. Harper Element (UK).
From the Dust Jacket: Cathy Glass had fostered fifty children over twenty years but none of them had been as disturbed as Jodie, a troubled eight-year-old whose violence and aggression had seen off five foster carers in just four months. When Jodie arrived, Cathy had no idea what lay beneath Jodie’s shocking behaviour, which included smearing faeces all over the house, erupting into violent rages and even cutting herself. Little by little, as Jodie’s rage was met with patience and understanding, she began to trust Cathy, and to confide the dreadful background which had led to her present torment.

Jodie’s childhood had been an appalling litany of mistreatment and neglect, which should have alerted the numerous social work professionals involved with her case. Jodie’s case file was So big it filled two suitcases, but apparently not one of her social workers had ever read the entire file. If they had, Jodie’s story and her future might have been very different. Finally, in Cathy, Jodie found one adult worthy of her trust, one who could help her begin the process of recovery.


About the Author: Cathy Glass, who writes under a pseudonym, has been a foster carer for more than twenty years. She has three children.


By the Same Author: Hidden: Betrayed, Exploited and Forgotten: How One Boy Overcame the Odds (2007); Cut: The True Story of an Abandoned, Abused Little Girl Who Was Desperate to be Part of a Family (2008); I Miss Mummy: The True Story of a Frightened Young Girl Who is Desperate to Go Home (2009); Saddest Girl in the World: The True Story of a Neglected and Isolated Little Girl Who Just Wanted to Be Loved (2009); The Night the Angels Came (2011); A Baby’s Cry (2012); Another Forgotten Child (2012); Please Don’t Take My Baby (2013); Will You Love Me?: The Story of My Adopted Daughter Lucy (2013); Daddy’s Little Princess (2014); and Saving Danny (2015), among many others.


Damaged Angels: An Adoptive Mother’s Struggle to Understand the Tragic Toll of Alcohol in Pregnancy. Bonnie Buxton. Foreword by Dr. Ab Chudley. 2004. 336p. (Reprinted in 2005 with a Foreword by Clarren Sterling, MD) Alfred A Knopf (Canada).
From the Back Cover: By the time Bonnie Buxton’s adopted daughter Colette entered first grade her parents were coping with frequent stealing and lying by the little girl, and the looming necessity of years of special education. At fourteen, Colette discovered drugs and sex; by eighteen, she was a crack addict living on the streets. After years of frustration consulting many therapists, a TV news story gave Bonnie the answer she was looking for—and sent her on a productive quest for a diagnosis and help for Colette, and their whole family.

Part heartfelt memoir, part practical guide, Damaged Angels recounts Bonnie Buxton’s years-long struggle to raise a child whose biological mother drank alcohol during pregnancy. Not since Michael Dorris’s The Broken Cord has a book offered so much insight into this preventable social problem. Buxton’s uniquely helpful book offers guidance to parents like her, as well as caregivers, teachers, and pediatricians who work with children afflicted with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD).

Damaged Angels will aid and comfort all those affected by FASD, and help reduce the number of babies born with this disorder in the future.


About the Author: Bonnie Buxton’s journalism has appeared in many North American magazines and newspapers. She and her husband Brian Philcox live in Toronto, and are cofounders of FASworld Canada, which works at building awareness of FASD worldwide. When the U.S. Congress voted to recognize FASD awareness by proclaiming September 9, 2004, “FAS Day,” Ms. Buxton and others were cited in the Senate for their work and recognized in the Congressional Record.


Dani’s Story: A Journey from Neglect to Love. Diane & Bernie Lierow & Kay West. 2011. 264p. John Wiley & Sons.
From the Dust Jacket: “The photo of the little girl was grainy black and white, even a little blurred. There was no pretty background, no fun props, and no cute outfit. Her bangs were uneven and jaggedly cut, and she wasn’t smiling. She had a vacant, distant look in her eyes. But it was those eyes that pulled me in and grabbed my heart.” I looked at my husband and said ‘Bernie, she needs us.’ He answered, ‘I know.’”

When young Danielle was rescued from a dark room in her mother’s filthy, roach-infested home, she spoke only in grunts and yelps, walked on her tiptoes, was not toilet-trained, and drank from a baby bottle. She was almost seven years old.

This book shares the deeply moving story of how Diane and Bernie Lierow were led to this remarkable little girl and became determined to overcome’ every obstacle so that she would become their daughter and receive the care and love that all children deserve.

A special ed classroom at Sanders Memorial Elementary School in Land O’Lakes, Florida, was where they would first meet Danielle, the child whose photo had captivated them at an adoption event several weeks earlier. They were filled with excitement, but also trepidation: What if they saw her and decided that she was just too much for them to handle? What if she harmed their son Willie, or took too much of their attention away from him? What if this young girl who drooled, bit her own arms and hands, and did not engage with others, threw a tantrum at the sight of them?

Once the Lierows entered the classroom, their fears fell away in a moment that was as surprising as it was simple—the moment when a little game with a Slinky toy established their first bond with Dani and marked the beginning of their new life together as a family.

Even more remarkable is what has happened since—how the Lierows learned to satisfy their daughter’s craving for contact and stimuli, how Dani began to overcome her severe learning disabilities, how she learned she no longer had to steal food, and how their son Willie may be the greatest brother ever.

Charting a perilous journey from hardship to hope, love, and a second chance at life, Dani’s Story is a book you cannot put down and, like the girl in the photo, you will never forget.


Diane and Bernie Lierow are parents to six children, including Dani, as well as foster parents. Their story won a Pulitzer Prize for the St. Petersburg Times and was featured on The Oprah Winfrey Show. They live on a farm in Tennessee with miniature horses, goats, chickens, and Great Pyrenees dogs.

Kay West is a veteran print media journalist who has also written three books.


Dare to Love: The Art of Merging Science and Love Into Parenting Children with Difficult Behaviors. Heather T Forbes. 2009. 143p. Beyond Consequences Institute.
From the Publisher: Emerging science has helped us to understand children better from a neurological and behavioral standpoint. Yet, all the academic research coupled with the best diagnoses for children can still leave parents feeling completely powerless. In her book, Dare to Love, Heather Forbes, LCSW, describes in detail, through a series of questions and answers, how to merge science into everyday parenting. This book gives practical, effective, and loving solutions for any parent struggling with his or her child. It will leave you feeling empowered, hopeful, and excited to be a parent, again.

About the Author: Heather T. Forbes, LCSW, is co-founder and owner of the Beyond Consequences Institute. Forbes has worked with nationally recognized attachment professionals in the field of trauma and attachment since 1999. She is an internationally published author on the topics of adoptive motherhood, raising children with difficult and severe behaviors, and self-development. Forbes lectures, consults, and coaches parents throughout the U.S., Canada, and the U.K., working to create peaceful, loving families. She is passionate about supporting families by bridging the gap between academic research and “when the rubber hits the road” parenting. Much of her experience and insight on understanding trauma, disruptive behaviors, and adoption-related issues comes from her direct mothering experience of her two adopted children.


Daughter from Afar: A Family’s International Adoption Story. Sarah Lynn Woodard. 2002. 129p. Writers Club Press.
From the Back Cover: An adoptive mother shares her true story about the sadness and joys of the long process to adopt an abandoned Chinese baby girl. Sarah Woodard reveals with humor, sensitivity and honesty the adoption process, the journey to bring home her daughter and the ultimate adventure of becoming a mother.

It is an absorbing story, beautifully written, in which two different cultures combine and illuminate each other, culminating in a heart-warming ending. But, as this new family is being born, it is really only the beginning.

100% of profits will be donated to Packages of Hope, Inc. Packages of Hope, Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization dedicated to helping children in orphanages around the world. Packages of Hope, Inc. provides packages of needed supplies, such as clothes, over the counter medicines, shoes, bedding, school supplies, playgrounds and toys, to children living in orphanages in desperate conditions.


Daughters by Design: The Miracle Adoption of Two Cambodian Orphans. Paula Jarot. 2011. 200p. WinePress Publishing.
Paula’s mind raced: Adoption is not happening! I’m too old. I’m comfortable-an empty nester! I’m busy teaching. A nine-year-old? Why me? Desiring to do God’s will, Paula searched in John Piper’s A Hunger for God and wept when she read Isaiah 58:6-8 on giving shelter and food to the needy. Five weeks later, God led her to mother not just one, but two Cambodian orphans. “We had no idea how rough our road would be for the next four years ... But Paul and I were willing to obey the Lord’s clear direction ... without ever asking a few obvious questions ...”

Days in the Desert: A Guide to Dealing with Grief. Sheri McGee, BSN. 2013. 114p. CreateSpace.
Dealing with grief can be hard work. It is a difficult time in our lives. We can use all the help we can get to get through it. Personal experience and biblical passages can guide us through this time.

Dead Draw. Kathy Rondeau & Mandi Rondeau. 2013. 286p. Kathy Rondeau.
Experience the highs and lows that a mother and daughter went through in their journey in Africa while the family attempted to adopt two brothers. Kathy and Mandi Rondeau spent months in Ghana, West Africa while going through the process of acquiring a private adoption. This is their story.

Dear Adoptive Parents: Things You Need to Know-Right Now! From: An Adoptee. Madeleine Melcher. 2015. 122p. CreateSpace.
From the Back Cover: Adoption is how you came to be a family—not a parenting style. Be the parent you are meant to be—the parent your child needs you to be, today.

About the Author: Adoptee, author, speaker, blogger and mommy, Madeleine Melcher is a breath of fresh air in a climate of negativity. Melcher’s piece, “What an Adoptee Wants You to Know About Adoption,” garnered over 87-thousand likes on The Huffington Post for just that reason. Melcher is honest and full of candor, regarding the realities of adoption and what that means to your parenting. Melcher’s message has been described by parents as, life-giving. You may be surprised at what you read from this adoptee!


Dear Barbara, Dear Lynne: The True Story of Two Women in Search of Motherhood. Barbara Shulgold & Lynne Sipiora. 1992. 236p. (Paperback edition published in 1995 by Dell as In Search of Motherhood: A True Story of Two Women Who Triumph Over Infertility) Addison-Wesley Publishing Co.
From the Dust Jacket: Dear Barbara, Dear Lynne is a heart-breakingly tender story of the desire for parenthood and the deepening friendship between two women who have known each other only on paper.

Barbara Shulgold and Lynne Sipiora met through the mail when one of them responded to a desperate letter the other had written to RESOLVE, a newsletter for infertile couples. These two brave women, complete strangers, bound by their common struggle to have a baby, began a correspondence that fortified them through three years of infertility traumas and adoption struggles—relying on each other for the support and understanding only another woman could bring. At first tentative, later deeply loving, the letters are an astounding document of friendship and the journey to motherhood. Dear Barbara, Dear Lynne is a testimony to the human spirit, the power of shared travail, and the joy of finally holding one’s face against the soft, sweet skin of a day-old infant.


About the Author: Barbara Shulgold lives in the San Francisco Bay area with her husband and their two daughters.

Lynne Sipiora lives in Indiana with her husband, stepdaughter, and two sons.



Second Edition
Dear Birthmother: Thank You For Our Baby. Kathleen Silber & Phyllis Speedlin. Foreword by Albert C Serrano, MD. 1982. 178p. (1991. 192p. 2nd Ed.; 1998. 3rd Ed. Corona.) Adoption Awareness Press.
From the Publisher: The authors have written this book “hoping you are someone who is or will be touched by adoption. ... for someone like Laura, and nineteen-year-old mother who recently gave birth to a baby girl and then placed the child for adoption, [who] has not forgotten the experience or her daughter. ... for parents like Mark, a thirty-five-year-old father who proudly brought home his first son from an adoption agency [who] ... cannot help wondering, ‘How could anyone give up such a beautiful child?’ and yet fearing ‘Will his birth mother want him back?’ ... for adoptees like Sarah, who at twenty searches for the birth mother who placed [her] for adoption at age one week.”

About the Author: Kathleen Silber was born and reared in Stockton, California, graduated from the University of California at Davis and received her Master’s degree in Social Welfare from the University of California at Berkeley. She has devoted much of her professional career to the field of child welfare, working with adoption agencies in Maryland, California, and Texas. Kathleen and her husband and two children live in San Jose where she is Adoption Supervisor for the Children’s Hone Society of California.

Phyllis Speedlin is a native of Steubenville, Ohio. She attended the Presbyterian School of Nursing in Pittsburgh and received her Nursing degree from Incarnate Word College in San Antonio. From 1970 to 1974 Phyllis was in the U.S. Army Nurse Corps, stationed at Fort Sam Houston, Texas. She received a Master’s degree in Health Care Administration from Trinity University and, in 1983, a law degree from St. Mary’s University School of Law. Phyllis, her husband, and their two adopted daughters live in San Antonio, Texas.


Dear Greta ... Love, Daddy: Letters From A Stay-At-Home Dad To His Adopted Daughter. Richard Schaaf. 2000. 144p. Azul Editions.

Dear Jeff: A Father Seeks Reconciliation with His Son in Letters Rich in Hope, Joy, Despair and Grief. Kerry Gough. 2015. 208p. CreateSpace.
Dear Jeff is a chronicle of an adventure in cross-racial adoption, growing up black and white, fighting for civil rights in rural Mississippi in 1965 and of an integrated family’s estrangement and reconciliation, hope and joy. In Dear Jeff the author offers a collection of letters endeavoring to reach a posthumous emotional reconciliation with his adopted African-American son, Jeff. Seeking to fill voids in his relationship with Jeff, Gough shares experiences that greatly impacted his decision to adopt six year old Jeff and his twin sister Sheila. He describes emotionally moving events of his childhood, empathizing with the traumas of Jeff’s early years; his awakening as a young soldier to the evils of race discrimination when he ran Fort Ord’s off-post housing service and blew the whistle on the Army’s unlawful connivance in housing discrimination on the Monterey Peninsula, his summer as a civil rights volunteer in Mississippi and his work as a Justice Department attorney in Mississippi in 1966 and 1967. When Gough and his wife adopted Jeff and Sheila, their goal was a happy, racially integrated home. Jeff, however, tried their patience and their love. Either as the result of foster home abuse or some hidden mental issue, the young man was prone to angry and destructive outbursts. Jeff’s truancy, illegal acts, and incarcerations were traumatic not only for Jeff, but for the whole family. At times, in desperation Gough wondered if Jeff’s adoption was a mistake. He would never know. Jeff’s life was cut short by a motorcycle accident. Writing with candid and often brutal honesty, Gough discusses the abuse Jeff suffered as a foster child and in a failed early adoption, his troubled relationship with Jeff, the mistakes he made as a father, and those precious moments when Jeff was the charming, loving, mischievous son and brother the family longed for. An insightful, personal look a both Gough and his son, exposing the intricacies of interracial adoption and raising troubled children, Gough’s letters ultimately seek peace for himself, his family and especially for Jeff.

Dear Linda: An Adoptive Father’s Open Letter to the Birthmother of His Child. Anonymous. 2006. 88p. Trafford Publishing.
From the Author: Ten years ago I became the adoptive father of a beautiful baby girl. The joy of nurturing my daughter to the brink of her teenage years has been the most fulfilling time of my life. She also has given me the noblest title of all. I am a father. Often during the past decade my thoughts have returned to the memory of a meeting with a young pregnant girl. A young girl whose ultimate, loving decision changed the course of my life. I wonder if her thoughts reach across the distance to reflect about her birth child and me. Is she emotionally troubled? Is she at ease with her decision? Does she need to be comforted by the knowledge that her birth child is being raised in a loving and stimulated environment? Dear Linda is an open letter to the birth mother of my child. But it is more. It is an open letter to all birth mothers from the perspective of an adoptive father. Not only does it express profound thanks for a mature and heart wrenching decision, it expresses love. Dear Linda details the events of the past eleven years. Many times emotional and oftentimes humorous, the reader is taken from the tribulations of a couple’s infertility to the rigors of the adoption process. Later, the life of a special girl is chronicled. This revealing glimpse of my daughter’s life will erase any lingering doubts that the birth mother may harbor about her decision. One learns that a selfless, loving act has positively impacted not only a child and a couple but also an extended family. The birth mother will learn that she touched the lives of several people in ways that she initially couldn’t have imagined.

Dearest Debbie: In Ai Lee. Dale Evans Rogers. Illustrated by P Bertolami. 1965. 62p. Fleming H Revell.
From the Dust Jacket: Dearest Debbie

Honey, if God had told me that day when we asked for you nine years ago—after having seen your Korean picture at age three—if God had said then, “You may have her for nine years, but then she must come home,” I would still have wanted you, and still have brought you here. You brought something we can’t forget—a quality of spirit—to this house.

Dale Evans Rogers

And Dale Evans Rogers brings a quality of spirit that the world will not soon forget as she faces the tragic death of her adopted Korean daughter.

She remembers the frightened three-and-a-half year old placed in her arms, unable to speak English ... the joys of growth, physical and spiritual ... the trials and pain of learning (“we had our moments, didn’t we?”) so familiar to all mothers and daughters.

And then ... a busload of children on an errand of mercy, a blow-out, and promising, talented Debbie was dead—how is it possible to have confidence in anything or anybody when such things happen? Dale’s radiant answer to this ever-perplexing question is an astounding Christian witness in a time of overwhelming tragedy. Her struggle with despair and doubt, and her ultimate victory, offer hope to each one of the millions of people who face the same heartache.


About the Author: Dale Evans Rogers is one of America’s outstanding women. Her many accomplishments are indicative of her numerous interests and her varied talents. Dale knows show business inside and out, as a star, along with husband Roy Rogers, in western movies and television; as a rodeo performer at State Fairs and in Madison Square Garden; as a singer and composer; as guest star on many popular television and radio programs; and as author of several best-selling books.

But the real Dale Evans is neither showgirl nor cowgirl, but a woman with a powerful belief in God; a woman who practices what she preaches. Her Christian witness in her home, as mother to a large, lively international family; her support of benevolent organizations, including American Diabetes Association, Exceptional Children’s Foundation, Children’s Hospital Society, National Association for Retarded Children and World Vision, Inc.; her active participation in church activities and in the Hollywood Christian Group; her inspirational writing—all attest to her deep faith and her sincere commitment. Dale was named Churchwoman of the Year for 1964 by Religious Heritage. The Rogers family are active members of the Chapel in the Canyon, Canoga Park, California.


A Death in White Bear Lake: The True Chronicle of an All-American Town. Barry Siegel. 1990. 448p. Bantam.
From the Dust Jacket: On Palm Sunday, 1965, a little boy died of peritonitis in White Bear Lake, Minnesota. He was three and a half years old, and his name was Dennis Jurgens.

Barry Siegel’s extraordinary book is the true story of Dennis, his adoptive parents, Lois and Harold Jurgens, his natural mother Jerry Sherwood, and the many others in the town of White Bear Lake and elsewhere whose lives were touched by them.

And it is much more than that. Here is a vivid portrait of a community deep in the American heartland that won an “All America City” award in 1965, within days of Dennis’s death: its storekeepers and craftsmen, its schoolteachers, housewives, and civic boosters, gathering cheerfully to celebrate birthdays and holidays and the pleasures of the woods and lake—picnicking in summer, sledding, skating, and ice fishing in winter. Here is the picture of a time we remember as full of innocent beliefs, bright hopes, and boundless possibilities. And here above all is a book about how decent, normal people—people like us—acted, or failed to act, at a critical moment in their lives.

Years after Dennis’s death, Jerry Sherwood decided to search for the child she had given up for adoption soon after his birth. He would be nearly grown-up now, and she wanted him to know he had blood relatives. She was prepared if he chose to reject her. She was not prepared for the letter from the welfare department telling her he had died in 1965.

Grieving, she found there was more to the story. From a newspaper clipping she learned that his body bore multiple injuries. From his death certificate she discovered that the coroner had never ruled on the actual cause of death. They had just buried the body—that was all.

When news of Dennis’s fate made the front page of a St. Paul newspaper on October 12, 1986, all the talk in White Bear Lake and beyond, in well-tended houses filled with comfortable people, was of “the Jurgens case.” These were good citizens who had lived the American dream for themselves and their children, but had never forgotten what happened behind the closed door of the house on Gardenette Drive. These were people who had seen Dennis change from a plump, outgoing toddler to a wan, silent child with unaccountable bruises on his face, arms, and legs. These were people who had worried, yet kept their silence.

And these were the people who for all those years had never stopped wondering what they could—or should—have done.

With brilliant immediacy and impeccable detective work, prizewinning journalist Barry Siegel has re-created their lives, and their community, over a span of more than two decades. He has probed the worlds of the police, the medical profession, the social-service system, the legal system, the courts, and the hardworking citizens who serve in them. And from copious records, interviews, and months spent living in White Bear Lake, he has made the town itself as resonant a presence in the book as any of the story’s many characters.

Twenty-two years after a little boy’s death, a verdict was rendered at last, leaving us to face deeply troubling questions about justice—and responsibility. Would any of us have spoken up? Would we speak up today?


About the Author: Barry Siegel is a roving national correspondent for the Los Angeles Times and the winner of many awards for his reporting, including the Livingston Award, the American Bar Association Silver Gavel Award, the PEN Center West Journalism Award, and the State Bar of California Golden Medallion Award for distinguished reporting on the administration of justice. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife and young daughter.


Death Knocking, Life Calling: The Amazing True Story of Randy and Mary Ann Gallaway. Randy and Mary Ann Gallaway, with Bear Mills. Foreword by Chris Galanos, pastor of Experience Life Church. 2014. 220p. CreateSpace.
This is the amazing story of how eighteen-year-old Randy Gallaway was given up for dead by a team of doctors following a horrific electrocution at an industrial site. However, one doctor fought to save his life. The story follows Randy through thirty-eight surgeries including having both arms amputated. Then it documents his extraordinary life over the next forty-eight years to demonstrate how God used him to change the lives of hundreds of thousands of people. It concludes with Randy and wife Mary Ann’s work around the world to provide a) hope and b) prosthetic devices for those in need.

December Babies: U.S. Domestic Adoption. Melody Lynn. 2014. 42p. CreateSpace.
Are you wanting to adopt domestically, but you are overwhelmed about the process? I am not an adoption professional, but a mom to two children by the blessing of U.S. domestic adoption. My husband and I supply information on what we learned along the way, good and bad, and offer advice that was given to us by adoption professionals. We share what expenses we incurred, and “talk” to you as if you are sitting in front of us. You will not find out personal information about our children’s adoption. It is for their privacy that we do not share this information. Some of the topics I cover in this book are: Story of Our Girls; Some Thoughts; Support; Your Profile; Reluctant Family Members and Friends; Home Study Meetings with the Biological Family; Expenses; Open Adoption; List of Questions for Your Agency and/or Attorney; Other Information; Useful Links.

Designing Rituals of Adoption for the Religious and Secular Community. Mary Martin Mason. 1995. 91p. Resources for Adoptive Parents.
From the Publisher: At long last there is a guide for designing Welcoming Ceremonies, Baptisms, Naming Ceremonies, Entrustment Ceremonies, Adoption Anniversaries and even Adoption Finalizations. Designing Rituals of Adoption includes Jewish, Christian (in English and Spanish) and secular traditions and ceremonies, including suggested readings, prayers, music, and symbolic actions. These rituals are appropriate for both infants and older children and all types of adoption including transracial, international and open. This book focuses on techniques that adoptive families can use to validate their families.

About the Author: Mary Martin Mason grew up in an open adoption, as is her 17-year-old son. She often addresses national audiences on issues of adoption including the open adoption. The author of Designing Rituals of Adoption and Out of the Shadows: Birth Fathers Stories, she is the Adoption Clearinghouse Coordinator for MARN (Minnesota Adoption Support and Preservation—MN ASAP) and editor of the MN ASAP Family Voices newsletter.


Desperate Love: A Father’s Memoir. Richard Reiss. 2011. 206p. Serving House Books.
In this searing memoir, a father confronts the complex issues of love and hate as he struggles to deal with his emotionally troubled and often violent son. Desperate Love examines the lengths that parents go to preserve their families and rescue children from themselves. Often gritty and occasionally funny, this extraordinary memoir follows one father’s quest for love, faith, redemption and understanding in a life beleaguered with infertility, adoption and adolescent aggression. About the Author: Richard Reiss began his professional writing career at the Piscataway-Dunellen Review, a Forbes newspaper, for which he wrote and was recognized by the New Jersey Press Association for his humor column, “Reiss’s Pieces.” Over the next twenty five years he developed his skills as a professional fundraiser working primarily for colleges and universities. During that period he also wrote extensively about creating a family through adoption, and the joys and challenges of being adoptive parents. His writings have appeared in The New York Times, ADDitude Magazine, Perigee Literary Journal, and in the anthology, Upstart Crows II: True Stories, published by Wide Array Press. In 2008 Reiss collaborated with director and lyricist, Martin Charnin, to create the musical revue Love is Love. He is a lifetime resident of New Jersey where he lives with his wife and three children.

Desperate Lullaby: The Journey of a Mother Raising Two Drug-Impacted Infants through Broken Systems to Resiliency. Hillery St George. 2013. 250p. CreateSpace.
Desperate Lullaby is the journey of a mother raising two drug-impacted infants through broken systems to resiliency. A system that should have protected them didn’t. Schools that should have served them better didn’t. People that should have loved them didn’t. Somewhere in the tragedy of all the “should-have-beens” that didn’t happen, resilience was born. With the help of a small band of caring people, they walked out of the desperate lullaby and into the light.

Detachment: An Adoption Memoir. Maurice Mierau. 2014. 226p. Freehand Books (Canada).
From the Back Cover: In 2005, Maurice Mierau and his wife, Betsy, adopted two boys, ages three and five, from Ukraine. In Detachment, Maurice probes not only the process of adoption but what comes after—the challenges of becoming a family, the strain on his marriage. When his son acts out and gets in trouble at school, Maurice feels removed, detached, thinking instead about his own emotionally distant father. Also born in Ukraine, Maurice’s Mennonite father has a traumatic, mysterious past of his own. If Maurice can understand his dad’s life, perhaps he can start to make sense of his new sons...

Detachment is a moving and darkly funny memoir about learning to become a father and a son.


About the Author: Maurice Mierau is the author of several books of poetry, including Fear Not, which won the ReLit Award in 2009. He was born in Indiana, and grew up in Nigeria, Manitoba, Jamaica, Kansas, and Saskatchewan. He now lives in Winnipeg with his family.


Devotions of Comfort and Hope for Adoptive and Foster Moms. Carol Lozier, LCSW & Lisa Edmunds. 2013. 261p. (Kindle eBook) CreateSpace.
Adoptive and foster moms have a pretty tough job raising children with a history of trauma and/or loss. The devotional is co-written by Carol Lozier LCSW, an adoption therapist, and Lisa Edmunds, an adoptive mom. The 120 devotions offer information, hope, and comfort to adoptive and foster moms as they trek through this journey of healing alongside their child.

Dialogue of a Foster/Adopted Child. Patricia A Corbitt, MSW, LGSW. 2013. 50p. E-Book Time, LLC.
Dialogue of a Foster/Adopted Child is a handbook for foster and adoptive parents to help them understand the trauma that the children may have experienced and how the trauma may affect the child’s development and behavior. The book basically speaks from the perspective of the foster or adopted child to the foster or adoptive parent and professionals who care for them.

Dialogues About Adoption: Conversations Between Parents and Their Children. Linda Bothun. 1994. 216p. Swan Publications.
From the Publisher: As the years go by, adoptive parents often find themselves in discussions with their children about adoption. Using hundreds of true-life vignettes, Ms. Bothun provides sample conversations covering every aspect of adoption. In most discussions about adoption, there is neither a right nor a wrong answer, but this book will help you to make the appropriate response for your family.

Diapers on the Clothes Line: My Journey Through Infertility. Hannah Stefanov. 2007. 64p. Xlibris Corp.
Diapers on the Clothes Line takes a unique look into the joys and challenges that occur through the journey of infertility. Written from a Christian point of view, Hannah unashamedly takes aim and smashes current views of how to deal with infertility. Laying claim that no woman by God’s design has to go through depression to heal and get through infertility, Hannah asserts her solid faith in a gentle, but honest way. Although Hannah and Kaloyan do not have children but rather, they are currently pursuing adoption. The goal in their lives was not how they had their children yet how they pursued God through the process of obtaining parenthood. God has been so faithful to continue to encourage and lift up their family.

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