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A Journey Through a Difficult Placement: Poems Inspired by Foster Care. CE Stone. 2014. 219p. (Kindle eBook) CE Stone (UK).
A collection of poems inspired by the frustrations, anxieties, complexities of being a foster carer, caring for an extremely damaged little boy. These are some of my thoughts and experiences, some will make you laugh, some will make you cry but anyone caring for children will be able to identify with the context. I found writing these poems my own personal release and if they help or inspire others who read them then that’s a bonus. Please don’t be put off by the word poems as the collection tells a complete story of child and carer’s journey.

A Journey Through Infertility: In Search of My Children. Deborah Lovae Ray. 2011. 112p. (Kindle eBook) DL Ray.
My life, from an observer’s point of view, looked enviable. The month after marrying my soul mate, we bought a house in the country and worked tirelessly to turn it into the perfect home for raising children. Assuming I could control when our children would arrive, we spent happy years traveling with friends and working on our successful business. By my 32nd birthday, when a pregnancy had not occurred, we began to actively research why. This began the long, arduous journey through the hope and despair of unexplained infertility. Starting with the simplest treatments, we progressed through every conceivable option. I survived the ordeal with the love and support of friends and family, although even they, at times, could seem insensitive to the extent of my pain. With unusual twists and turns, I continued my quest for the children who I believed were somewhere out in God’s universe, waiting for me. This is a story of love and faith, dedicated to my two precious children.

A Journey to Heaven: A Daughter’s Short Life Gives a Family Lessons in Love and Miracles. Tammy Brodowski Mott & Bruce Brodowski. 2013. 162p. Carolinas Ecumenical Healing Ministries.
Four-year-old Emmy Mott was diagnosed with brain stem cancer. Doctors gave her eight weeks to live. Her mom Tammy was devastated. God had other plans. During the next 41 weeks, Emmy’s story touched thousands of hearts all over the world through her Facebook page. Many came back to Christ and began to pray. Emmy’s story changed their lives.

A Journey to Love: Adventures in Foster Parenting. Chris Wilson. 2012. 34p. (Kindle eBook) C Wilson.
If you’ve ever wondered whether foster and/or adoptive parenting may be for you, then A Journey to Love: Adventures in Foster Parenting is a must read. In it, you will share in the many joys (and more than a few of the frustrations) that come with taking foster children into your home. What do you need to be a foster parent? That could be a book in itself, but the most important quality is love. Specifically, you need the ability and willingness to love someone else’s child, knowing that you may eventually have to give him or her back. Through all the ups and downs of foster parenting, we have found that the rewards far outweigh the price. We trust you will, too. This is our story. We know that there are many others like it just waiting to be lived.

Journey to Our Children: Infertility and Adoption: One Couple’s Story. Kate Cargreaves. 1996. 176p. Aurora Publishing (UK).
The author tells her painful story of infertility investigation and unsuccessful donor insemination treatment ending in the adoption of two children.

Journeying Through State Adoption: Working with the System—One Day at a Time. Daphine L Reeves. 2006. 176p. iUniverse.com.
From the Back Cover: Journeying Through State Adoption is a practical guide for anyone who desires to adopt a child and who needs information to begin. It gives you a complete road map for navigating the state foster care system. You will walk through the touching story of a family who pursued their desire to share love with a child in need.

Additionally, Journeying Through State Adoption is for those who want to learn more about the state foster care system, professionals who work within the system, and people who serve as advocates for foster and adopted children.

This guide helps readers answer some vital questions regarding adoption:

• What are the requirements to become an adoptive parent?

• How do I get started?

• What kind of children are waiting to be adopted?

• Is there a child right for my family?

Journeying Through State Adoption includes helpful resources such as contact information for the child welfare agency in every state, listings for many nation-wide adoption support groups, help in identifying and obtaining subsidies for adoptive families, and a state-by-state definition of children with special needs.

Join one family as they discover the answers to these and many other questions during their step-by-step journey!


About the Author: Daphine L. Reeves is Vice President of Sharing Adoption Family Experience Through Networking, a foster/adoptive support group, and the spokesperson regarding adoption subsidies in Texas for the North American Council on Adoptable Children.

She lives in Texas with her husband, Dirk, and their daughters, Morgan and Jaelyn.


Joy Comes in the Morning. Angela Tipton. 2007. 70p. iUniverse.com.
This book chronicles the story of one family’s journey together in the realm of special needs adoption. It will give you a clear look into the lives of a family with love for children as well as the lives of the unique individuals who live life with disabilities. You will see the impact they have had on the author’s life as well as others. Their journey has been long and at times treacherous. This book walks you through the joys and perils of parenthood, adoption, and our individual search for faith. As the author introduces you to the special people in her family you will feel encouraged and will learn the important life lessons these unique individuals can teach you. Her prayer is that you will encounter God in an amazing way that will bring you to a stronger faith in your Heavenly Father. The reader will be encouraged, taught and drawn to a deeper faith and dependency on God. This family’s story is emotion provoking, challenging and life changing. About the Author: Angela Tipton is a loving wife and mother of six, five with disabilities. She and her family live near Hendersonville, NC. She loves reading, crocheting, and is a support person for parents who have children with disabilities. Angela is a teacher, therapists, and an awesome advocate for her family.

The Joy of Adoption. Christina Sue Martin. 2008. 20p. Masthof Press.
The author writes a beautifully descriptive fictional story based on true experiences from her own life. She herself was adopted and now has two adopted children of her own. This book was meant to be an inspiration, to help and encourage adopted children, to not only point out the joy of adoption, but to also encourage parents in their hopes and dreams and to soften parents’ hearts towards considering adoption.

Joy, Interrupted: An Anthology on Motherhood and Loss. Melissa Miles McCarter, ed. 2013. 197p. Fat Daddy’s Farm.
Joy can be interrupted—but not lost. Most people think of motherhood as a joyous experience, but for some it can be an experience of interrupted joy. This anthology delves into the subject of motherhood and loss from different perspectives of authors and artists from all over the world. The book is uniquely structured around the five stages of grief, mirroring the grief journey many go through. Editor and publisher Melissa Miles McCarter conceived of the anthology six years after her daughter died of SIDS and then struggling with secondary infertility after an ectopic pregnancy. The anthology focuses on mothers and their children who face loss in all forms, losses which can “interrupt the narratives of our lives.” Some of these universal themes addressed include: coping with the death of a child; relationships between mother and child (including adoption and estrangement): caring for disabled children: and having to mother one’s own mother because of an illness.

Junie Moon Rising: A True Story. June Collins. 2013. 316p. Trafford (Singapore).
This sequel to Goodbye Junie Moon begins where she left off in Washington D.C. She has just testified in Senate Hearings about the corruption among the sergeants managing the army N.C.O. and enlisted men’s clubs in Vietnam. By succumbing to her conscience and becoming a whistle blower, she had put her life at risk and lost her business of providing rock bands for the military clubs. Her testimony made front page headlines all over the United States. With her life in tatters, she hopes to make a fresh start and that fresh start includes adopting a poverty stricken child from the streets of Asia. She has seen so much death and so many devastated lives that she now hopes, in some small way, to save a little life. This seems impossible. She is not the usual P.T.A. candidate. A divorced, ex-exotic dancer, suffering P.T.S.D. from the Vietnam War has little chance of meeting the adoption agencies stringent guidelines for adoptive parents. And even in the 1970s, such overseas adoptions were expensive. Even worse, the rules required that she be married. She had tried that once—briefly, and vowed she would never marry again. So, with no husband, no money, and a life best suited to the future T.V. series, Sex and The City, what hope did she have? Her only assets are courage, persistence, and determination. The only glimmer of hope comes from the royalties she hopes to accrue from a book she plans on writing about her Vietnam experiences. Can she change her hedonistic ways, find a husband and become an acceptable adoptive parent? Only time will tell. It is hard to believe that this story is not fiction but it has all been repeatedly verified.

Just: A Story of the Lost and Found. Elea Lee. 2011. 98p. CreateSpace.
The story of one ordinary family navigating through a life with fostered and adopted children, struggling to cope with loss, mental illness, and a sexual predator in their midst. The author hopes to raise awareness about the need to support victims of abuse and educate children in order to keep them safe. A story of faith challenged and God’s grace.

Just Add Sugar: The Sweetness of His Presence. Deby Scott. 2012. 322p. WestBow Press.
Whether you’re a mom already or your desire is to become one, Deby’s journey to faith and family will encourage you to stay on life’s conveyor belt and never give up on your dreams. Inviting His presence into the process makes all things possible.

Just For Awhile. Virginia Connelly. 2007. 100p. iUniverse.com.
From the Back Cover: This is the true story of a boy placed in foster care while his mother was in prison. It is also the story of his foster mother and family, and the impact he was to have on their lives. During the first months in his new foster home, Billy’s angry and erratic behavior made even this experienced mother and teacher question her decision to open her home to a child in need. However, as the child began to bond with his new family, they discovered in themselves a deeper caring than they could have ever imagined.

At times hilarious, at times sad and deeply moving, this story is a must for anyone who has ever considered fostering or adopting a child.


About the Author: Virginia Connelly has worked as a teacher, a Parent Educator, and as a migrant child advocate. She currently works with at-risk youth. Virginia lives in Carmel, California.


Just Give Me Borscht: From Siberia With Love. B Matthew Bingham. 2004. 76p. iUniverse.com.
Why would any couple in their mid-forties, already grandparents and soon to be retired, think that there was something that they still needed to do? They wanted to make a difference that could be, and should be, made for others. They would give not just money, but themselves, to the lives of two children who lived deep in the heart of Siberia. They would receive just as much in return as they had given, because of one incredible truth. These were not just any children, but older children; the ones usually left behind, overlooked, or never really considered by prospective adoptive parents. One seven- and one 15-year-old whom others considered at one time or another, however, decided for whatever reason to adopt someone younger. These children faced different impossible situations that could have caused them a life of grief, if they choose the wrong course. In B. Matthew Bingham’s first book, The Answer is NO! What is the Question?, you will find that the author really does understand the child soon to be left behind, as he was himself adopted at the age of four and a half. In almost every country in the world, the real choice is of the child itself as to what they want, and where they hope to find ... “Borscht by choice.”

Just Out of Reach. Lauren-Brooks Wilson. 2013. 84p. CreateSpace.
Just Out of Reach is the first book of its kind. It chronicles the story of a family trying to adopt from the foster care system that is told from the child’s voice. An appropriate read for people who have ever asked the question or wondered “How does this process affect the biological children in the home?” Social workers, psychologists, foster and adoptive families, and policy makers alike will find value and insight to the words spoken by this 11-year-old child.

Katya’s Comet: An Adoption Journey of the Heart. Scott Roos. 2004. 108p. iUniverse.com.
Once Scott Roos embraced his wife Nancy’s vision to adopt an older child in need, the couple embarked on a roller coaster ride of international adoption. While the process was challenging and downright discouraging at times, they persevered with strength derived from heart-sourced guidance to overcome many obstacles, doubts, and fears. The joyous outcome, Katya, provided a gift of love and inspiration to their three biological children, extended family, friends, teachers, and strangers who Katya touched along her incredible journey. From a probable dead-end in a rural Russian orphanage, to a hopeful life in an American family, Katya’s Comet exposes the emotions, people, places, cultures, and logistics that the couple encountered along the way. While Katya’s Comet provides useful insights and references for international adoption, in a broader sense, it motivates you to seek a selfless vision with the promise of experiencing the ripples of joy that inevitably result when you drop your proverbial stone into the enormous pond of human need. Scott’s firsthand experience uniquely qualifies him to share this touching story. His down-to-earth writing style and heartfelt open sharing is positively engaging. About the Author: Scott Roos wrote Katya’s Comet with wisdom and conviction, gained from his family’s real-life adoption. An accomplished product designer, Scott tempers his career with Dahn yoga and growing political activism focused on creating a sustainable future. Scott lives in Glenview, IL, with his wife Nancy and their four children.

Keeping Foster Children Safe Online: Positive Strategies to Prevent Cyberbullying, Inappropriate Contact and Other Digital Dangers. John DeGarmo. Foreword by Kim Phagan-Hansel. 2014. 158p. Jessica Kingsley Publishers (UK).
From the Back Cover: Foster children are more likely than other children to be involved in risky activities online due to backgrounds of neglect and abuse, an absence of supportive adults, lower self-esteem, and greater exposure to drugs and alcohol.

Covering all the dangers of online technology that your foster child might encounter, from cyber-bullying and “sexting” to child grooming and online hoaxes, this book pays particular attention to dangers unique to foster families, such as the difficulties Internet access poses for maintaining formal arrangements for contact with birth families. DeGarmo equips you with strategies to keep foster children safe online, giving tips on establishing expectations for Internet usage, advice on how to prevent inappropriate contact and protect personal information, and explaining the importance of “netiquette.”


About the Author: John DeGarmo is a proud foster and adoptive parent who has fostered over 40 children. He regularly speaks on his experiences at conferences and training sessions, and is dedicated to improving and promoting successful foster and adoptive care systems. He is the author of The Foster Parenting Manual: A Practical Guide to Creating a Loving, Safe and Stable Home, and the children’s picturebook A Different Home: A New Foster Child’s Story, co-authored with his wife Kelly DeGarmo, both published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers, as well as a memoir, Fostering Love: One Foster Parent’s Journey. John and Kelly live with their foster and adoptive children in Georgia, USA.


By the Same Author: Love and Mayhem: One Big Family’s Uplifting Story of Fostering and Adoption (2014).


Keeping Your Adoptive Family Strong: Strategies for Success. Gregory C Keck & L Gianforte. Foreword by Rita L Soronen. 2015. 202p. Jessica Kingsley Publishers (UK).
From the Back Cover: Welcoming a new child into the home through adoption is a life-altering experience for the child, the parents, and everyone else in the family.

Expectations and realities often differ dramatically, and adjusting to the change can be difficult and emotionally fraught, Since the majority of children available for adoption today are in the system as the result of abuse and neglect, parents must acknowledge that these children will carry their trauma with them into their new homes. This book inspires a willingness to address these not-so-easy, didn’t-see-that-coming aspects of adoption, which is the first step toward building a strong family. The inclusion of real stories from real people adds heart and encouragement, offering hope for the future of the entire family.

A valuable resource for parents and professionals, this book provides useful strategies for tackling the challenges commonly faced by adoptive families.


About the Author: Gregory C. Keck, Ph.D., was the founder and director of the Attachment and Bonding Center of Ohio, which specializes in the treatment of children and adolescents who have experienced developmental interruptions due to their early traumatic history. He was certified as a Diplomate and Fellow by the American Board of Medical Psychotherapy and was a Diplomate in Professional Psychotherapy. He was the co-author of Adopting the Hurt Child and Parenting the Hurt Child, and author of Parenting Adopted Adolescents.

L. (Elle) Gianforte is an award-winning writer, collaborative author, ghostwriter, and developmental editor. Her extensive experience in the adoption arena includes serving on the board of directors of ATTACh, the Association for Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children, for two years. She holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in English from Kean University in New Jersey and attended the School of Visual Arts in New York. She is the adoptive mother of two sons.


By the Same Authors: Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families With Special-Needs Kids: A Guide for Parents and Professionals (with Regina Kupecky; 1995, Piñon Press); Parenting the Hurt Child: Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow (with Regina Kupecky; 2002, NavPress); and Parenting Adopted Adolescents: Understanding and Appreciating Their Journeys (2009, NavPress), among others.


Keys to Adopting a Child. Kathy Lancaster. 1994. 194p. (Barron’s Parenting Keys) Barron’s.
From the Publisher: This book will show you new options in adopting a child, tell you how to work with adoption agencies and agents, describe confidential, open, and semi-open adoptions, discuss adopting different types of children, and more. It also explains the rights of birthparents, the legal and ethical aspects of adoption, and the safeguards for a successful adoption.

The author gives advice on making the decision to adopt a child, new options for prospective parents, and much more. Practical details are explained, including getting started on your adoption plan, preparing for your child’s arrival, bonding between parent and child, and adjusting to the differences that adoption brings.

Here’s help for parents who must cope with the details of raising children in the often-demanding contemporary environment. Bringing up children today is different—and in many ways more difficult—than it was in past generations. Barron’s Parenting Keys speak to today’s parents, with answers to today’s problems.


About the Author: Kathy Lancaster is a freelance journalist, educator, and adoptive parent.


By the Same Author: Keys to Parenting an Adopted Child (1996), among others.


Keys to Parenting an Adopted Child. Kathy Lancaster. 1996. 196p. (Barron’s Parenting Keys) (2009. 2nd ed. 196p.) Barron’s.
From the Publisher: Practical, expert advice is offered on the rewards and challenges connected with raising an adopted child. The author presents techniques for raising happy, well-adjusted children; blending adopted children into the family; answering children’s questions about adoption; and much more.

Here’s help for parents who must cope with the details of raising children in the often-demanding contemporary environment. Bringing up children today is different—and in many ways more difficult—than it was in past generations. Barron’s Parenting Keys speak to today’s parents, with answers to today’s problems.

If you have just adopted a child, you need special advice—the kind that will help you raise a happy child. In an encouraging tone, this book offers that advice as it guides parents through the practical methods of raising an adopted child. The author discusses special considerations such as transracial adoptions, adopting older children, and adopting children with physical and emotional disadvantages. A special question-and-answer section, a glossary and informative appendices complete this valuable reference.


About the Author: Kathy Lancaster is a freelance journalist, educator, and adoptive parent.


By the Same Author: Keys to Adopting a Child (1994), among others.


The Kid (What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Get Pregnant): An Adoption Story. Dan Savage. 1999. 246p. Dutton.
From the Dust Jacket: From Dan Savage, the writer whose sex-advice column, “Savage Love,” enrages and excites four million people every week, comes the compelling and unexpected story of his journey into parenthood.

Dan and his boyfriend, Terry, want a baby. So they do what millions of other couples do: They decide to adopt.

Their odyssey begins at a two-day seminar in Portland, with six other couples—all straight—who can’t conceive, either. After rejecting the idea of making a “bio-kid” with a lesbian couple, a lesbian single, and even their straight next-door neighbor, Dan and Terry decide on an “open adoption,” in which the birth mother selects the adoptive parents for her child. Their gay friends think they’re sellouts. The far right think they’re sinners. And the odds of a mother selecting a gay couple for her baby (most seem to be looking for “Christian homes”) must be a million to one.

When Dan and Terry are selected by the birth mother, they announce, “We’re pregnant!” But there are issues: The mother —a street kid—drank and used drugs during the pregnancy, so there’s the risk of fetal alcohol syndrome, and despite the doctor’s order to get bed rest, she’s still living on the streets. As Dan and Terry tag along on her prenatal visits and the due date rapidly approaches, the fears common to expectant parents mount: What if the baby isn’t healthy? What if we aren’t parent material? And what if the birth mother changes her mind and decides to keep the baby? Meanwhile, giddy, prospective grandmothers are violating Dan and Terry’s “no gifts before birth” decree by buying things they just couldn’t resist, like two I Love Daddy bibs from Dan’s mother.

In The Kid, Dan Savage shares his views on what it means to be gay and raising a child in America today. In the process, he takes his usual scathingly funny, on-target potshots at everything from growing up gay to committing to a younger man, from the gay left to the religious right, homophobia ... love ... getting fat ... getting married ... getting old ... and the very human desire to have a family.


About the Author: Dan Savage’s nationally syndicated column, “Savage Love,” runs in twenty-eight newspapers in the United States and Canada. He is also the author of “Dear Dan,” an on-line advice column for ABCNEWS.com and a regular contributor to This American Life on public radio. His writing has appeared in The New York Times Magazine, Travel & Leisure, Out Magazine, and Poz magazine. Savage Love, a collection of his advice columns, is available in a Plume edition. He lives in Seattle.


By the Same Author: The Commitment (2005), among others.


Kidnapped: A True Story of an American Family Held Hostage by the US Embassy. John T Evans. 2012. 150p. FastPencil, Inc.
When John and Kerri Evans discover their son, Kameron, has a biological sister who is an orphan in Cambodia, they seek and receive permission from the US Government to adopt her and bring her home to the USA. For the next 6 years, the Evans family is held hostage in Cambodia by the US Embassy, USCIS, and US Departments of State and Homeland Security. The Embassy staff instructs them to pay bribes and commit multiple crimes. They refuse to do so and are rewarded with harassment from the IRS. Eventually, the family is set free and allowed to bring their children home. But, their marriage is destroyed and they are ruined financially.

Kim: “I Will Make Darkness Light”. Hugh Steven, with Kim Wickes. 1975. 152p. Harvest House Publishers.
Kim was three years old in 1950, when the North Koreans invaded her native village. After an exploding bomb took her sight and facing starvation, her desperate father threw Kim and her sister into a river. Only her mother’s screams forced him to attempt a rescue. He saved Kim but her sister drowned. After being placed in a Missionary Orphanage for the blind, Kim was noticed by a missionary who recommended her to an American Adoption Agency. Kim was adopted by the Wickes family of Indiana.

Kim: A Gift from Vietnam. Frank W Chinnock. 1969. 211p. World Publishing Co.
A true story of a father’s search for a lost child told with “genuine candour and tenderness...makes moving reading” (Publishers Weekly). Kim is a love story. The hesitant love of a fearful child reaching out in a strange land to become part of a family. The love between parents of three sons who are willing to climb an almost insurmountable wall of red tape to adopt a homeless waif. But most of all it is a love of humanity...told in a heart-warming story that rekindles faith in his fellow man for everyone.

Kirabo: A Journey of Faith, Love and Adoption. Kveta Rose. 2014. 382p. CreateSpace.
When Tandela travels to Uganda after university, she has no idea what kind of adventure lies ahead. While spending long days at an orphanage, her heart breaks for the sickest baby of them all. In what she describes as a “silent stirring in my soul,” Tandela experiences the unmistakable call of God to pursue adoption of this baby boy—one who has been abandoned at birth and given only one month to live. She is told that her hope to adopt baby Mark will most likely be futile, if he even survives. Spurred on by a deep parental love that can only be described as God-given, Tandela nonetheless courageously embarks on what becomes a nerve-racking quest that will serve to test her faith like never before. In the beautiful country of Uganda, whose northern region is being ravaged by war, Tandela faces one obstacle after another on this journey fraught with loneliness, doubts, and fears, but pierced with moments of pure joy.

Kisses from Katie: A Story of Relentless Love and Redemption. Katie Davis, with Beth Clark. 2011. 288p. Howard Books.
What would cause an eighteen-year-old senior class president and homecoming queen from Nashville, Tennessee, to disappoint her parents by foregoing college, break her little brother’s heart, lose all but a handful of her friends (because the rest of them think she has gone off the deep end), and break up with the love of her life, all so she could move to Uganda, where she knew only one person but didn’t know any of the language? A passion to make a difference. Katie Davis left over Christmas break her senior year for a short mission trip to Uganda and her life was turned completely inside out. She found herself so moved by the people and children of Uganda that she knew her calling was to return and care for them. She has given up a relatively comfortable life—at a young age—to care for the less fortunate of this world. She was so moved by the need she witnessed, she’s centered her life around meeting that need. Katie, a charismatic and articulate young woman, is in the process of adopting thirteen children in Uganda, and she completely trusts God for daily provision for her and her family.

Kurt Vonnegut: Letters. Dan Wakefield, ed. Introduction by the Editor. 2012. 436p. Delacorte Press.
From the Dust Jacket: This extraordinary collection of personal correspondence displays all the hallmarks of Kurt Vonnegut’s fiction. Written over a sixty-year period, these letters, the vast majority of them never before published, are funny, moving, and full of the same uncanny wisdom that has endeared this author to readers worldwide.

Included in this comprehensive volume: the letter a twenty-two-year-old Vonnegut wrote home immediately upon being freed from a German POW camp, recounting the ghastly firebombing of Dresden that would be the subject of his masterpiece Slaughterhouse-Five; wry dispatches from Vonnegut’s years as a struggling writer slowly finding an audience and then dealing with sudden international fame in middle age; righteously angry letters of protest to local school boards that tried to ban his work; intimate remembrances penned to high school classmates, fellow veterans, friends, and family; and letters of commiseration and encouragement to such contemporaries as Gail Godwin, Günter Grass, and Bernard Malamud.

Vonnegut’s unmediated observations on science, art, and commerce prove to be just as inventive as any found in his novels—from a crackpot scheme for manufacturing “atomic” bow ties to a tongue-in-cheek proposal that publishers be allowed to trade authors like baseball players. (“Knopf, for example, might give John Updike’s contract to Simon and Schuster, and receive Joan Didion’s contract in return.”) Taken together, these letters add considerable depth to our understanding of this one-of-a-kind literary icon, in both his public and private lives. Each letter brims with the mordant humor and open-hearted humanism upon which he built his legend. And virtually every page contains a quotable nugget that will make its way into the permanent Vonnegut lexicon.

ON A JOB HE HAD AS A YOUNG MAN:
“Hell is running an elevator throughout eternity in a building with only six floors.”

TO A RELATIVE WHO CALLS HIM A “GREAT LITERARY FIGURE”:
“I am an American fad—of a slightly higher order than the hula hoop.”

ON BORIS, HIS CHESS-PLAYING ROBOT:
“Really—he is one smart, mean son of a bitch.”

TO NORMAN MAILER:
“I am cuter than you are.”

Sometimes biting and ironical, sometimes achingly sweet, and always alive with the unique point of view that made him the true cultural heir to Mark Twain, these letters comprise the autobiography Kurt Vonnegut never wrote.


About the Author: Dan Wakefield first befriended Kurt Vonnegut in 1963. Like Vonnegut, he was born and raised in Indianapolis. He is a novelist and screenwriter whose books include the bestselling Going All the Way and the memoirs New York in the Fifties and Returning: A Spiritual Journey.


Compiler’s Note: Of Vonnegut’s four adopted children, three were his nephews: James, Steven, and Kurt Adams, of whom Vonnegut and his first wife, Jane, took custody (but never formally adopted) when both their mother, Alice (Vonnegut’s older sister), and father, James Carmalt Adams, died within a 48-hour period in September 1958 (James in a tragic commuter rail accident in New Jersey and Alice from cancer); the fourth, Lily, was adopted as an infant in 1982 by Vonnegut and his second wife, Jill Krementz, a photographer and author of the book How It Feels to Be Adopted (1982, Knopf). (The fourth and youngest of the Adamses’ sons, Peter Nice, went to live with a first cousin of their father’s in Birmingham, Alabama, as an infant.) Lily is a singer, actress, and the producer of the YouTube series “The Most Popular Girls in School.”

See also, And So It Goes: Kurt Vonnegut: A Life (2011, Henry Holt).


Labor of the Heart: A Parent’s Guide to the Decisions and Emotions in Adoption. Kathleen Whitten, PhD. 2008. 240p. M Evans & Co.
From the Publisher: Adoptive parents often experience the double trial of emotional responses to infertility and to the process of adoption itself, called “excruciating labor with no end in sight,” by one adoptive mother. Would-be adoptive parents cycle through grief, anger, fear, anxiety, frustration, and guilt—and back again. All of these emotions cloud decision-making, at exactly the time that adoptive parents are making life-altering, irrevocable decisions: whether to adopt at all, to adopt an older child or an infant, or to parent a child with developmental delays, as well as other pressing questions. New empirical research by Kathleen Whitten, Ph.D., a developmental psychologist and adoptive mother, and other experts in the field contradicts many of the outdated myths presented to parents and written about in widely used adoption guides. Whitten separates fact from fiction and leads parents by the hand through the many emotional impacts the process involves. Written in a reassuring, conversational tone, the author tells parents when they should listen to their heart—and when practical considerations are too important to ignore. Each chapter features workbook section with constructive exercises and stimulating questions.

Adoptive parents do not need yet another book promising a “fast track” to a child or explaining how to collect documents. Instead, they need Labor of the Heart to help them through the difficult emotions and decisions about adoption.


About the Author: Kathleen L. Whitten, Ph.D., is a developmental psychologist and widely published journalist. She works in psychiatric medicine at the University of Virginia where her clients are primarily foster and adoptive families. She and her husband were one of the first two American couples to adopt a child from Vinh Long, Vietnam, in 1997. She lives in Virginia.


Labours of Love: Canadians Talk About Adoption. Deborah A Brennan. 2008. 272p. Dundurn Press (Canada).
From the Back Cover: Adoption is not for the faint of heart. Labours of Love chronicles the journeys of Canadians who have overcome heartbreaking obstacles to become parents. Their stories are as diverse as our country, and span the borders of our world. While each account is unique in its own way, the stories are connected by the overwhelming commonality of the power of human connection.

Labours of Love unearths an issue that is still stigmatized in some areas of the country. Through conversations with adoptive parents, adoptees, and birthparents who reveal their inmost feelings, the reader will gain a new understanding of the complexities of adoption. What shines through this societal veil, however, is the undeniable element of celebration—of the children we love—whose origin, while important, has little to do with their precious place in our hearts.


About the Author: Deborah Brennan is among women whose career interfered with having a family. The challenges she faced as a design director for a major retailer did little to prepare her for the rigours of her daughter’s adoption. She lives in Oakville, Ontario.


Ladybug Love: 100 Chinese Adoption Match Day Stories. Kat LaMons & Trish Diggins. 2013. 250p. Marcinson Press.
Ladybug Love is a collection of stories from adoptive families covering more than a decade of adoption through China. Whether you’re in the process of adopting a child from China, have brought your child home, work in the field of adoption, or have an adoption connection, you’ll find the support, laughter, tears, hope, and joy from others who have already walked a mile in your shoes.

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