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No Higher Call: A Biblical Treatise on Adoption. Bradford Smith. 2015. 135p. Olivia Kimbrell Press.
From the Back Cover: Where is your heart?

Nationwide, tens of thousands of children languish in the foster system, orphans with no hope, no family. Each year, thousands of orphans graduate the system into a life of struggle—poverty, addiction, incarceration ... as the Church stands idly by. God’s word speaks clearly and decisively on the matter leading to one exacting question—where exactly is your heart?

From the pages of Scripture, Bradford Smith issues a surprising call, challenging God’s people to take action, to open their eyes to the affliction, to hear the cry of the orphan and to respond.

No Higher Call will absolutely destroy any preconceived notions you may have. Shocking, in your face, gut-wrenching—this book will pierce your heart. Absolutely DO NOT read it unless you are prepared for the bitterest of truths, the sweetest of graces, and the reminder that ... there is No Higher Call.


About the Author: Bradford Smith has been married to his best friend Ami since 2001 and they stay busy raising their nine children together. A graduate of West Point, Brad has served on active duty since 1995 including multiple combat tours to Iraq and Afghanistan.

In 2007, Brad surrendered to the call to preach and in 2011 he joined the staff of The Way, A Baptist Church in Clarksville, as the Missions Pastor where he continues to serve bi-vocationally.

In 2010, Brad and Ami opened the Clarksville Covenant House for teenagers who age out of the foster system and in 2013, Brad graduated from Liberty Theological Seminary with a Masters of Divinity.

Once the Army releases him from duty, he plans to plant a new Baptist church and run the Covenant House full time alongside his wife.


No Matter What: An Adoptive Family’s Story of Hope, Love and Healing. Sally Donovan. 2013. 352p. Jessica Kingsley Publishers (UK).
From the Back Cover: No Matter What tells the uplifting true story of an ordinary couple who build an extraordinary family—describing Sally and Rob Donovan’s journey from a diagnosis of infertility to their decision to adopt two children who suffered abuse in their early lives. Writing with incisive wit and honesty, Sally Donovan movingly describes the difficulties of living with infertility and the emotional process of arriving at a decision to adopt. She recounts the bewildering logistics of adoption and, after finally Sally and Rob are joyfully matched with siblings Jaymee and Harlee, how their joy is followed by shock as they discover disturbing details of their children’s past. Determined to heal their children, Sally and Rob realise they will need to go “beyond parenting” to give them the help they need. By turns heart-rending, inspiring and hilarious, Sally and Rob’s story offers a rare insight into the world of adoptive parents and just what it takes to bring love to the lives of traumatised children.

About the Author: Sally Donovan grew up in a small town in England and studied English at Exeter University. After ten years working in commercial management, she retrained for a new career in horticulture, working for several years in historic gardens. In 2004, Sally and her husband Rob adopted two children from local authority care. Like many children adopted today, Sally and Rob’s children had suffered neglect and abuse in their early lives. Together they have journeyed through the many challenges of building a family with children so profoundly affected by their early trauma.


No More Here and There: Adopting the Older Child. Ann Carney. 1976. 88p. University of North Carolina Press.
From the Publisher: No More Here and There is a down-to-earth account of an older child growing into a family, as reflected in the diary kept by his adoptive mother, who subsequently developed this personal journal into a manuscript which the publisher hopes will be of real value to all those interested in the adoptive placement of children with special needs.

No Time for Tears. Mary Shrimpton. 1995. 132p. Pine Tree Press.
The autobiography of a foster mother. “Why be a foster mother? What does it entail? Many problems, hard work, dealing with dirty habits, bad language and trying to explain to small children why their own world has come crashing down around them. My world once came crashing down. ...” Mary Shrimpton had TB. However, she recovered, but was then told she should have no more children. “I knew then what I would do, I would find a child whom nobody wanted, and once the idea had germinated, I was eager to get going.” Read this if you do have time for tears. You will need a box of tissues!

Nobody Comes: The True Story of the Rescue of a Child from a Romanian Orphanage. Anthony Cleary. 2014. 310p. Crux Publishing (UK).
This is the true story of the (ultimately successful) endeavour to find, extract and adopt an infant from an “orphanage” in post revolutionary Romania despite the unhelpful and sometimes downright obstructive attitude of both the UK and the Romanian authorities. The author describes the horrors of Orphanage Number One in Bucharest, the poverty and endemic corruption which he faced on a daily basis and his struggle to raise awareness in both jurisdictions of the damage inflicted upon the children by the general indifference to their plight. The book also recounts the remarkable friendship which was forged with a Bucharest University graduate who became interpreter, guide and, ultimately, Godfather to the child who was rescued.

Not Always Happy: An Unusual Parenting Journey. Kari Wagner-Peck, MSW. 2017. 262p. Central Recovery Press.
From the Back Cover: Not Always Happy is a humorous and sharp chronicle about adopting and raising a son with Down syndrome from the Maine foster care system. The author quickly learns that life is best lived by expecting the unplanned when she makes the decision to become a parent in her late forties.

As her unconventional family moves along in this life, she and her husband are less aware they are raising an atypical child or an adopted child. They are raising their child—which comes with the same joys, challenges, and quirkiness all families encounter.


About the Author: Kari Wagner-Peck, MSW, authors the blog atypicalson.com. She is a homeschooling mom, a humorist, an advocate, an activist, a social justice storyteller/performer, and a pop culture fiend. Her writing has been featured on the New York Times’ Well Family blog, the Sydney Morning Herald’s Daily Life section, the Huffington Post, the Good Men Project, and Love That Max.


Not Done Yet...: Memories and Other Thoughts. Noreen Gelling. 2012. 118p. Jukiro Creative.
From the Back Cover: I have always written. From as far back in my life as I can remember I wrote poems, stories, random sentences that never went anywhere. Not Done Yet... is the start of actually putting my writing together and sending it out to the world. I don’t know where it will land. I am hoping it strikes somewhere around your heart and helps you awaken something in yourself that calls you to a better place, forgotten memory or inspiration for tomorrow. Some pieces contained herein are longer, but not necessarily more important. They just needed more words. May they all fall gently.

Not Exactly as Planned: A Memoir of Adoption, Secrets and Abiding Love. Linda Rosenbaum. 2014. 253p. Demeter Press.
Not Exactly as Planned is a captivating, deeply moving account of adoption and the unexpected challenges of raising a child with fetal alcohol syndrome. Rosenbaum writes about family, community and the ability to rise above a tragic diagnosis with insight and clarity, while weaving in the everyday aspects of life: bird-watching, bar mitzvahs, saving the Toronto Islands, the collision of ’60s idealism with the real world, and family secrets. With compassion and humour, she tells a story that is achingly unique yet universal to all parents.

Not for the Likes of Us: The Story of Luke’s Adoption and Then Some. Irene Kay. 2010. 180p. AuthorHouse (UK).
Largely autobiographical, this is a book about an unusual life. It begins and ends with Luke, the author’s son, adopted in Brazil in 1976. It addresses the distressing process of sub-fertility and the difficult and frustrating process of adoption in the U.K. and follows the author’s journey to Brazil and the subsequent and distinctly illegal adoption of her son Luke. It covers the instant motherhood experienced by the adoptive parent and the touching moment of bonding with the baby. It then goes back in time and traces the author’s working-class background and growing up in South East London during the war and evacuation. The subsequent breakdown of her marriage to her French husband, coping with single parenthood, alcoholism and the re-shaping of her life constitutes a major part of this book. In 1982, whilst living on a houseboat on the Thames with her son Luke, she followed a full-time Bachelor of Arts degree at Kingston Polytechnic. Island life on a houseboat at Hampton Court is fully explored and it was during these years that she met her current partner, professional musician Tony Bell. In 1998, they retired from London and led an idyllic life in the South of France until 2002 when she discovered a lump in her right breast. Eight years later following radiotherapy, surgery and anti-cancer medication, she is apparently cured. The final part of this book is “Luke’s story”; how he coped with the knowledge that he was an adopted third-world child, the breakdown of his parent’s marriage and their subsequent divorce and his mother’s cancer. About the Author: Born in South East London into a working-class docker’s family in 1935, Irene Kay was a “blitz kid” and spent the war years in five separate periods of evacuation. After leaving school in 1952, she worked in London as a secretary and in 1961 went to Paris where she lived with a French family as their Au Pair. In 1962, she met a young Frenchman in a Left Bank jazz club and they returned to England together in 1966. In March 1998, she took part in a Radio 2 program on the subject of “Motherhood,” her particular angle being that of the adoptive parent. As had always been her intention, in November 1998 she retired from her job in London and, with her partner of 26 years, returned to France to live permanently. She now lives in the South of France near Montpellier with her partner, a professional musician. Since being in France, she has written many articles for the English-language publications and, in 1999, had a regular twice-weekly column in the Midi Libre newspaper. She writes about local events, particularly music and the local British musicians. She is a regular contributor to the bi-monthly magazine Languedoc Sun. She also writes on the issues of integration into the French way of life and culture. She has one son, Luke, who lives in Kent and works at the University of Greenwich.

Not My Flesh and Blood But My Heart and Soul: My Journey to Motherhood Through Interracial Adoption. Amanda Harvey. 2009. 166p. CreateSpace.
Biology is only one way of being related. This deep realization of familial love that transcends convention, genetics and race is the underlying tenet of this book. From her days as a newlywed, traveling abroad with husband Ian, the story traces the winding path to motherhood of Amanda Harvey. Throughout tales of life in Europe and Asia, Harvey finds that the blossoming of an ever strengthening maternal urge begins to shape the choices she makes. The narrative follows the couple’s journey through two interracial adoptions in Taiwan. The excitement and utter joy of bringing home their baby daughter, and 18 months later an infant son, as well as the emotional roller coaster that their lives become in that period. The final chapters find the Harveys in the present day, raising their beautiful Taiwanese children in the children’s country of ethnic origin and embarking for a third time on the tumultuous and incredible adventures of parenthood and adoption.


U.K. Edition
Not the Girl Next Door: Joan Crawford, A Personal Biography. Charlotte Chandler. 2008. 316p. Simon & Schuster.
From the Dust Jacket: In this fascinating new biography of screen legend Joan Crawford, Charlotte Chandler draws on exclusive and remarkably candid interviews with Crawford herself and with others who knew her, including first husband Douglas Fairbanks, Jr., and Crawford’s daughter Cathy. As a result, this biography is fresh and revealing, a brand-new look at one of Hollywood’s most acclaimed stars.

Joan Crawford was born Lucille LeSueur in San Antonio, Texas, in 1908 (as she always insisted, though other sources disagreed). Her father abandoned the family, and her mother soon remarried; Lucille was now known as Billie Cassin. Young Billie loved to dance and achieved her early success in silent films playing a dancer. Her breakthrough role came in Our Dancing Daughters. Soon married to Hollywood royalty, Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. (who called her “Billie”), she was a star in her own right, playing opposite John Barrymore and a stellar cast in M-G-M’s Grand Hotel.

Crawford was cast opposite another young star, Clark Gable, in several films. They would sometimes play lovers on screen—and off as well. After her marriage to Fairbanks broke up, Crawford married actor Franchot Tone. That marriage soon began to show strains, and Crawford was sometimes seen riding with Spencer Tracy, who gave her a horse she named Secret. Crawford left M-G-M for Warners, and around the time she married her third husband, Phillip Terry, she won her Oscar for best actress (one of three times she was nominated) in Mildred Pierce. But by the 1950s the film roles dried up. Crawford and Terry had divorced, and Crawford married her fourth husband, Pepsi-Cola executive Alfred Steele. In 1962, she and longtime cinematic rival Bette Davis staged a brief comeback in the macabre but commercial What Ever Happened to Baby Jane? Following Steele’s death, Crawford became a director of Pepsi-Cola while she continued raising her four adopted children. Although her daughter Christina would publish the scathing memoir Mommie Dearest after Crawford’s death, Chandler offers a contrasting portrait of Crawford, drawing in part on reminiscences of younger daughter Cathy among others.

Not the Girl Next Door is perhaps Charlotte Chandler’s finest Hollywood biography yet, an intimate portrait of a great star who was beautiful, talented, glamorous, and surprisingly vulnerable.


About the Author: Charlotte Chandler is the author of several biographies of actors and directors, including Groucho Marx, Federico Fellini, Billy Wilder, Alfred Hitchcock, Bette Davis, and Ingrid Bergman. She is a member of the board of the Film Society of Lincoln Center and lives in New York City.


Not What I Expected: he Unpredictable Road from Womanhood to Motherhood: Fiction, Essays, Poetry, and Art. Donya Currie Arias & Hildie S Block, eds. 2007. 363p. Paycock Press.
An anthology of poetry, fiction, essays and artwork by Jody Bolz, Carole Burns, Grace Cavalieri, Christina Daub, Mary Doroshenk, Patricia Gray, Clarinda Harriss, Anne Hasselbrack, Jacqueline Jules, Mary Ann Larkin, Lyn Lifshin, Hilary Tham, Donna Vitucci, Mary-Sherman Willis, and tons more. Includes a section on infertility, as well as one essay each from the perspective of a prospective adoptive mother (“Purple Fleece and Motherhood” by Katherine Mikkelson) and a birth mother (“Holy Places” by Stephanie Brown).

Not What We Were Expecting: A Memoir. Angela Dawn Vesely. 2014. 262p. Fountain Blue Publishing.
How hard would you be willing to fight, to fulfill your dreams? What would be your breaking point? Angela and Jason Vesely had a simple wish: to have a baby and start their family together. A common desire of most couples, but not always so easy for a growing number of the population. Their story of reaching a seemingly average goal is anything but typical. Were they able to conquer the extreme circumstances they faced on their unimaginable journey? This is the story of the Vesely’s battle for their son. An adoption agency and birth mother want to take back a three-month-old baby boy from a couple who wanted to give him a loving home after learning that the adoptive mother was pregnant. The 22-year-old biological mother (who had signed away all parental rights) said that she wanted the parents who adopted her son to not have their own biological children. She wanted them to either raise her son as an only child or to adopt if they wanted to expand their family (Does she have the right to dictate these terms?). But Jason and Angela Vesely say they didn’t purposely hide Angela’s pregnancy when they applied to adopt two years prior; as this is an impossibility. They were guardedly optimistic about this pregnancy because Angela had miscarried three times before. They say they were never asked whether she was pregnant or not and were never told of the birth mothers wishes for no biological children. They loved their adopted son as if he was their own and an agency wanted to take him away. A court battle ensued.

Not Your Normal Family: A Single Asperger Woman’s Adoption of Two Down’s Boys. Fiona Barrington. Foreword by Jennifer Rees Lacombe. 2008. 180p. Authors OnLine Ltd.
Growing up in a world dominated by fear and loneliness, Fiona knew that something was wrong, but assumed it was all her fault. A breakdown at the age of eighteen brought her to the brink of despair, but proved to be the turning point. A combination of cognitive behaviour therapy, friendships at university and gaining a personal faith gave her new hope. Subsequent failure to meet the right man led to plunging self-esteem and a return to loneliness, but she eventually found fulfilment through adopting two baby boys with Down’s Syndrome. When her sons were teenagers, she was finally diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome at the age of 48, enabling her to make sense of her life and gain the self acceptance that had eluded her for so long. This is a true story. Only the names have been changed.


“Stanley”
Note-Book of an Adopted Mother: Home Training of a Boy. Eleanor Davids (pseudonym). 1903. 259p. EP Dutton & Co.
A former kindergarten teacher who’d been trained to memorialize her day-today experiences applies this habit to her home life after taking in an orphaned five-year-old boy, when her and her husband’s preference for a girl was thwarted by a paucity of acceptable available female orphans.

From the Preface: I SHOULD like to say a few words of explanation to my readers before they begin my note-book. It is not a novel with a purpose. It is a notebook with a purpose, however, and I wish it to start its career honestly.

When I was a young girl, studying in one of the most thorough kindergarten training-schools in the country, I was required to keep a journal in which were recorded with unflinching honesty the results of all my teaching under supervision. This journal was handed in to the Director once a week, read, and unsparingly criticized by her. In it I was obliged to tell of the work done with my pupils during each half-hour, what the lesson was intended to teach them, physically, mentally, and spiritually; whether I felt that it was a success; if not, where my failure had been and whether I thought I could improve on it if given another trial. I was also expected to write down any especially bright or significant remarks made by the children. The ostensible purpose of this was to keep the Director closely in touch with the work of her unpaid assistants. The great good of it to the conscientious student, however, was the habit of self-examination which it formed. Many a time I have come to understand my pupils and myself much better because of the quiet thought I was obliged to give to our work together, at a time when there were no conflicting calls for my help and no temptation to flurry or impatience.

It has seemed most natural, therefore, since I left my beloved work of training both kindergarten children and kindergarten teachers, to continue in my own home the habit of earlier years. A memorandum pad on my dresser and another on my desk have caught the hurried jottings of my busy days, and when my boy was sleeping it has been happy and profitable work to elaborate the hastily made notes.

All mothers cannot do this, I know, yet all are meeting from day to day many of the problems which come to me. So it may chance that, following my experiences on the printed page, they will find their own perceptions somewhat quickened, and profit, not only by my little successes, but by my failures as well. It is a great deal to form the habit of looking beneath the surface of the day’s happenings; it is a great deal for some of us even to want to do so.

There is a second purpose to this volume. All over this broad land there are homeless children and there are childless homes. It seems such a radical step to take, this bringing into a quiet and well-ordered house a child of strange parentage, and there are always so many ready to prophesy evil consequences, particularly among one’s own relatives, who become suddenly anxious for the honor of the family name. But one who has tried it knows that it is not such a startling thing to do after all, and if the laying bare of her own deepest experiences results in the opening of one more home to some friendless child, she will not begrudge the effort that it costs.

Because these notes are written with such honesty and are of such a personal character, I ask to be permitted a nom de plume. The only reservation I have made is in the matter of names.


Nothing Ever Happens to the Brave: The Story of Martha Gellhorn. Carl Rollyson. 1990. 398p. (“The Adventurous Life of America’s Most Glamourous and Courageous War Correspondent”) St Martin’s Press.
From the Dust Jacket: Now in her early eighties, Martha Gellhorn is as irascible, passionate, and committed to her work as the day she did the unspeakable and declared herself an independent woman by dropping out of Bryn Mawr to pursue a career as a foreign correspondent. Her graphic articles covering every war from the Spanish Revolution to Vietnam and Nicaragua are considered the most eloquent ever published. But, to her chagrin, she’s best known as the third of Hemingway’s four wives.

Born into a privileged family in St. Louis, Missouri, the headstrong Gellhorn felt confined by the genteel pretensions of women around her who “crave equality but also the status of an art object.” Choosing poverty over passivity, she worked as a reporter covering the morgues. She then bartered her way to Europe to begin a grand adventure backpacking. When she returned to the United States, she worked for the Federal Emergency Relief Administration, writing charged articles about the crushing poverty of the Dust Bowl. She met with the Roosevelts, with whom she became lifelong friends, and lobbied strenuously for greater assistance to the poor.

Her indomitable, unintimidated spirit, not to mention her “distracting legs” and stunning blond beauty, made her irresistible to men. She bewitched Eleanor Roosevelt’s secret love, cast a spell over the dashing French peace activist Bertrand de Jouvenel, and enraptured Hemingway with her courage as they dodged shell fire together in the trenches of Spain. But Gellhorn, trying to balance career and marriage, always chose to cover the adventures of another war. She published five novels and seven prize-winning collections of her explosive journalism, all still in print.

In this first full-scale study of her life, Carl Rollyson demonstrates that the thrilling life of America’s most important war correspondent makes for a biography that reads like an adventure novel. Today’s women can look to Martha as a role model who did it all before it was considered respectable.


About the Author: Carl Rollyson is Professor of Art and Dean of Education at Baruch College in New York City. He is the author of Marilyn Monroe: A Life of the Actress and Lillian Hellman: Her Legend and Her Legacy.


By the Same Author: A Higher Form of Cannibalism?: Adventures in the Art and Politics of Biography (2005, Ivan R. Dee).


Compiler’s Note: See, particularly, Part Four, the section of the book covering the period from 1948-1988, during which she adopted her son, Sandro (“Sandy”) Gellhorn.

See also, the author’s other work, listed above, in which he discusses the Gellhorn biography at some length.


Nothing to Cry About: The Poignant, Triumphant Story of One Woman’s Quest for Motherhood. Barbara J Berg. 1981. 286p. Seaview Books.
A career woman in her mid-thirties confronts the obstacles of infertility, insensitivity, and incompetency when she struggles to have a baby, adopts a child, and later gives birth to a healthy infant.

Nowhere to Go: The Heartbreaking True Story of a Boy Desperate to Be Loved. Casey Watson. 2014. 288p. Harper Element (UK).
Bestselling author and foster carer Casey Watson shares the shocking true story of Tyler, an abused eleven-year-old who, after stabbing his step-mother, had nowhere else to go. Knowing a little of Tyler’s past—his biological mother, a heroin addict, died of an overdose when he was three—Casey feels bound to do her best for him. It isn’t easy; Tyler continuously lashes out, even trying to attack Casey herself. Investigation into his earlier childhood reveals why: forced to watch his mother die he was found emaciated and traumatised two days later, then delivered to a father who didn’t want him and a step-mother who beat him. With the horrific events of his past now vividly affecting the course of his present, Casey and her husband Mike are determined to veer him away from the violence and drugs they fear he will come to depend on. Heartbreaking and profoundly moving, Nowhere to Go tells the story of a child forsaken by his family but fought for by his foster carers.

The Nuts and Bolts of Open Adoption. Catholic Human Services of Traverse City, MI. 1995. 300p. (Ring-bound) R-Squared Press.

Of Braces and Blessings. Bonnie Wheeler. 1980. 159p. Christian Herald Books.
From the Back Cover: Meet the Overcomers!

Discover the charming, often amusing story of a family that moved from being overcome by hardship—to being overcomers through the grace of Jesus Christ.

Here is a warm, personal account of a couple whose three children faced serious health problems: one had cerebral palsy, and two suffered from hyperactivity.

Read how the family learned to lean on God to help them overcome and to open their hearts to three more children with special health problems.

Read the Wheelers’ story and be encouraged, entertained and inspired!


Bonnie Wheeler was born in West Virginia, was raised in Kentucky and Florida, and has been a Californian since 1961.


The Official Guide to Adoptions in Eastern Europe, 1994-1995. David Livianu. 1994. 2,820p. (3 Volumes & Videotape) Melador Publishing House.
About the Author: David Livianu is originally from Romania, now a proud U.S. citizen since 1986, living in New York City. He is a graduate of the Juilliard School of Music. Since 1990 he has been involved in helping Romania’s orphans. His latest project since Romania closed its doors on international adoptions in 2001, was to research and document the adoption laws and procedures for all 194 countries of the world. The goal: to make all the critical decision making information available to parents and adoption professionals ... thus reducing the exorbitant costs and the inordinate waiting time!

Okay, Which One of You Took My Sanity?: A Fun Guide to Foster, Adoptive, and Other Kinds of Parenting. Matthew W Hoffman & Claudia M Fletcher. 2011. 177p. Third Degree Parenting.
From the Publisher: Okay, Which One of You Took My Sanity?: A Fun Guide to Foster, Adoptive, and Other Kinds of Parenting is a humorous he-said/she-said breakdown of parenting strategies. Hilarious true-to-life stories reveal common threads between two families facing unique challenges and even more unique children. Together the stories encourage other parents to embrace change rather than “fix” family dynamics. Matt and Claudia, both adoptive parents, each exhibit distinctive parenting styles within their own adoptive families. Still, both apply the same principles to pilot the demands of special needs parenting. Fun and laughter might be the primary intention of this “Dr. Phil meets Erma Bombeck” concoction, but it ruptures with insightful parenting techniques. In between laughs, you might discover that there is something very profound about being a parent ... but probably not.

About the Author: Claudia M. Fletcher, B.A., M.Ed., is an adoptive parent, along with her husband, Bart, of 12 children born between 1986 and 1998. She is also an adoption professional and a national adoption speaker who combines humor with years of experience to encourage, instruct, and entertain parents and professionals alike. She resides in Minnesota with her husband and some of the twelve children (the number of people living at home changes on a daily basis)!

Matthew W. Hoffman graduated with a B.A. in Sociology from the University of Maryland, Baltimore County (UMBC) and spent time working in special education classrooms and healthcare. He and his wife, Krista, were licensed foster parents in the Baltimore/Washington area specializing in therapeutic care for nearly a decade. Their book, Hattie’s Advocate, a story of special-needs parenting has remained an online bestseller under adoption, children with special needs, and family relationships categories.


Older Child Adoption. Grace Robinson. 1998. 180p. Crossroad.
From the Publisher: Adopting a child over the age of two can present unique challenges and opportunities, even for experienced parents. It is one thing to understand about adopting an older child and quite another to live with that child. This book presents both the author’s personal experiences after having adopted three children (ages nine to twelve) and the results of her research of over thirty families who adopted older children.

About the Author: Grace Robinson of Fort Collins, Colorado, was a Middle School teacher for 20 years. In 1983 when she wanted a Middle School-aged child she would not have to give up in June, she adopted a twelve-year-old. In the next three years, she adopted a thirteen-year-old and a nine-year-old. Grace has been an active member of Family Resources, a private, non-profit agency specializing in older child adoption.


Olives for Breakfast: A Book for Prospective Foster/Adoptive Parents. Valeria Woods. 2010. 60p. Eloquent Books.
In this informative, spirited, personal account, Valeria Woods encourages Christians to open their homes to the experience of fostering children, and adoption. This book covers the process and details required, and gives prospective parents the emotional and faith-based structure for taking this important and powerful step. Providing a home for a homeless child is, by far, one of the greatest examples of Christian love. It is a true twenty-four hour a day mission! Valeria Woods lives in Memphis, Tennessee and has been an educator for twenty-one years. She brings her personal experience and perspective, as both a former foster child and foster parent to nineteen children over the years, to the inspired writing of this book.

On the Outskirts of Normal: Forging a Family against the Grain. Debra Monroe. 2010. 232p. Southern Methodist University Press.
From the Publisher: Mired in debt and on the run from a series of broken homes, about-to-be-divorced Debra Monroe pulls up in front of a tumbledown cabin outside a small Texas town. Its isolation—miles from her teaching job in a neighboring city—feels right. She buys the house and ultimately doubles its size as she waits for the call from the adoption agency to tell her she’s going to be a mom. Now in her forties, she is swept into the strange new world of single motherhood, complicated by the fact that she’s white and her daughter is black. As Monroe learns to deal with her daughter’s hair and to re-enter the dating scene, all the while coping with her own and her daughter’s major illnesses, they live under the magnified scrutiny of the small, conservative town. Confronting her past in order to make a better life for her daughter, Monroe rebuilds not only a half-ruined cabin in the woods but her sense of what it is that makes a sustainable family.

About the Author: Debra Monroe lived in South Dakota, Wisconsin, Kansas, Utah, and North Carolina before moving to Texas in 1992. She is the author of four previous books, including two collections of stories, The Source of Trouble and A Wild, Cold State, and two novels, Newfangled and Shambles. Her books have been widely reviewed and have won many awards, including the Flannery O’Connor Award for Fiction, the John Gardner Fellowship, and The Violet Crown Award. Her books have appeared on “Best Ten” lists in Elle and Vanity Fair magazines and in Borders’ “Original Voices” series. She has published fiction and nonfiction in many journals and magazines. She teaches in the MFA program at Texas State University and lives in Austin, Texas.


By the Same Author: Shambles (2004), among others.


Once Removed: Voices From Inside the Adoption Triangle. Sherry Sleightholm & Wendie Remond. 1982. 136p. McGraw-Hill Ryerson.
From the Publisher: This book speaks with unique power and intimacy to the millions of people across North America who, directly or indirectly, have had their lives touched by the adoption process. Here are the moving stories, taken from actual case histories, of adoptees who have tried to uncover a hidden past; of birth parents discovered by sons or daughters they had given up for adoption years before; and of adoptive parents who must cope with feelings of rejection, jealousy and bewilderment.

One Against the Storm: A True Story. Stanley C Mann. 1980. 221p. Quest Publishing.
From the “Author’s Note”: I decided to write this book on January 4, 1979, one week after my niece’s death, when I went to her home in Denver, Colorado, to pack up her personal belongings and ready the house for sale. I was prepared for a traumatic experience. What I found was tangible, overwhelming evidence of her love and concern for little David, her adopted son. I shall never forget the three days I spent in Joan’s home.

This book is an attempt to honor a promise to my dead niece. I took an oath that if I could not fulfill requests in her will and trust—and the courts have frustrated me at every turn in these matters—I would make every effort to locate her adopted son’s natural parents in the hope that they might have married each other, or that one of them might recognize David’s need and step forward to rescue the boy.

One Against the Storm is true. The people are real, their names unchanged. The documented incidents are examples of love, hate, greed, betrayal, discrimination, revenge that extends beyond the grave, legal chicanery, brutality, and perjury, judicial incompetence and dishonesty.


Compiler’s Note: Flight attendant Joan Wheeler was one of eleven people killed when United Airlines flight 173 crash-landed six miles short of the runway at Portland International Airport on December 28, 1978.


One Brief Shining Moment. Arlene C Swirsky. 2001. 130p. Writers Club Press.
From the Back Cover: This is a mother’s story of survival. It is no more and no less than any mother could have done under similar circumstances.

A child is born with such incredible medical problems and challenges, a whole community is brought to bear to help keep her alive and her family from crumbling under the terrible strain.

It speaks of strength, and the illusion of control.

One Brief Shining Moment is a testament to one small family, trying its best to stay together, body and soul, and surviving the worst. It is a heart breaking, gut wrenching story to read, but one that demonstrates the depth of love.

When one’s alternatives are limited, you gotta go with what you got; and this is going with what you got, at its best. A must read for any parent who has ever faced a medical challenge with a child, as it gives insights only another parent can appreciate.


About the Author: Arlene Swirsky lives in Central Massachusetts with her husband Bruce, son Greg, two Yorkshire Terrorists and a cat. She has covered news for the Worcester Telegram and also written for The Exceptional Parent magazine.


The 125 Most Asked Questions About Adoption (and the Answers). Paul Baldwin. 1993. 144p. William Morrow & Co.
From the Dust Jacket: Q: Isn’t it a rule that siblings should not be separated?

A: There are no absolute rules on the separation of siblings, but agencies do try very hard, in most cases, to see to it that they stay together. Unfortunately, few adoptive parents want to take on two children simultaneously. You should certainly be informed as to the existence of siblings, however, and given the opportunity to apply to adopt both children.

Finally here’s a book all parents can turn to with their questions about adoption. Presented in a straightforward, accessible format are all the answers about this complex subject for prospective parents, and perhaps eventually, for the child they adopt. Drawing on the latest available facts and figures from dozens of organizations and agencies, as well as speaking directly to parents and children from a variety of backgrounds and circumstances, this book covers both the legal and technical aspects of adoption, and the crucial emotional aspects as well.

From the moment they begin to consider the process of adoption, prospective parents face a variety of overwhelming issues, choices, and decisions. Now, thanks to this book, they will learn every facet of adoption, from what they can expect from “home studies,” to the red tape they may encounter when adopting a foreign orphan, to the difference between private and public agencies. A thorough discussion of the controversial Surrogate Mother alternative is also included, making The 125 Most Asked Questions About Adoption the most up-to-date primer of its kind. Of course, Paul Baldwin also presents answers to such emotionally fraught questions as the best way to tell children that they are adopted, and when it is best to do so. The concerns of adopted children are also addressed through discussions ranging from the search for a biological parent to what medical information an adopted child can expect to have access to, and the best way to respond to insensitive classmates.

The 125 Most Asked Questions About Adoption covers every aspect of the adoption process and will help adoptive parents and children alike understand the unique issues that will face them in the course of their lives.


Paul Baldwin is an actor and singer who has recently turned his talents toward writing.


One Man’s Journey Seeking Peace Through Faith. Danny Parker. 2014. 68p. CreateSpace.
I would like to invite you on a journey. A journey “seeking peace.” Travel along with me as God’s “Life Plan” for me begins to unfold. We will see together how God sets His plan in motion. Let the story begin: It’s 1963, I am 15 years old. God saves my life. Not once, but twice! Find out how God returns me to the path that leads me to the woman I will marry. I will share with you about the beauty of adoption and the difficulties that can come with it. How I have come to realize there is no greater gift on earth, than the gift of a child. You will see how my faith and trust in the our Lord develops and grows over the years. You will also see how God has blessed my family and myself in so many ways. So, please join me on this journey of 50 years. I promise you will laugh, you will cry, you will feel compassion. I hope that in these few pages, you will discover the “peace you are seeking.” A, husband, a father, a friend in Christ.

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